Could it REALLY be That Simple?

Moroni was the man. You want to know if something is good or bad? He gave it to us straight–undiluted. He said, “Dude, knowing right from wrong is stinkin’ simple. Plain as day” (paraphrasing).


Okay, so he really said,

It is given unto you to judge, that ye may know good from evil; and the way to judge is as plain, that ye may know with a perfect knowledge, as the daylight is from the dark night.

Meh, basically the same thing.

But is it really that simple? Plain as day? What about when your friends at school take the Lord’s name in vain? Is that right?

“Well,” you might respond, “it’s not right for me to take His name in vain, but it’s my friends. I can’t control what they say. ‘Judge not,’ remember? That’s what Jesus said!”

Touché. Jesus did say that. And you’re right. You don’t need to treat your friends like scum, or heathens, or kickable garden gnomes… That would go against the Lord’s teaching to love one another. But if you’re going to quote Jesus, at least quote Him all the way. If you look at the inspired translation of that verse, we see that what He really said was, “Judge not unrighteously, but judge righteous judgement.”

But what about saying it yourself, just a little, to show your friends that you really are sincerely not judging them?

“It’s not like I say it at home!” you might say. “I don’t even really like saying it–it’s just for the benefit of my friends!”

Benefit? Really?

“Hey! You agreed that judging isn’t good. Don’t judge me either!”

Okay, wait. First off, you’re just a vague hypothetical person, not the real thing…


Keep in mind, when I say “you” I really mean my evil twin.

“Evil twin?”

Okay, more like, devils advocate alternate ego. And second, remember that it’s right and wrong that we’re talking about. If I neglect to teach the principle, for fear of offending you, I may be held accountable for keeping my trap shut. Jacob in the Book of Mormon talked about “answering the sins of the people upon our own heads if we did not teach them the word of God with all diligence.”

Now admittedly, I’m not your leader. I’m just some awesome dude on the Internet…

“Pride goeth before the fall, brother.”

Okay, just some dude (just saying…)

But still, if you’re ever tempted to get after your leaders for being “judgmental” towards your choices, remember that your leaders and parents are called as judges.

Anyway, we’re getting totally off topic.

Moroni says,

The Spirit of Christ is given to every man, that he may know good from evil; wherefore, I show unto you the way to judge; for every thing which inviteth to do good, and to persuade to believe in Christ, is sent forth by the power and gift of Christ; wherefore ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of God.

But whatsoever thing persuadeth men to do evil, and believe not in Christ, and deny him, and serve not God, then ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of the devil; for after this manner doth the devil work, for he persuadeth no man to do good, no, not one; neither do his angels; neither do they who subject themselves unto him. (Moroni 7:16-17)

So if something invites you to do good, it’s good, and invites you to do evil, it’s evil? That’s it?

Not exactly. Read the whole verse. (err… the whole verses… uh, both verses, wholly).

Everything that invites you to do good, and persuades to believe in Christ, is sent from God. Everything that persuades you to do evil, to believe not in Christ, and to deny him, and serve not God, is evil.

So if it invites you to do good and persuades you to believe in Christ, it’s good. If it invites you to do evil and deny God, it’s evil. It’s that simple.

“But wait…” you might say, “What about Batman? He doesn’t tell me to believe in God, but He’s not evil!”

Ah, and this is the acid test. This is where the rubber meets the road. This is where I stop reciting useless cliches and get back to the lesson. Obviously batman (correct me if I’m wrong, I haven’t seen the new movies. I remember him in the grey and purple suit punching the bad guys with a flashing “POW” across the screen) doesn’t persuade us to do evil, and deny God. Batman doesn’t try to get us to stop serving God. So he’s not evil.

But don’t stop there. Does batman persuade to believe in Christ?

“Er… well…”

Does he invite and entice us to do good, and to serve God?

“Maybe not, but he still, well… fights bad guys…”

But he doesn’t entice us to serve God. So the consensus? Is Batman good or bad? And the correct answer is: I don’t know. Like, maybe, neither?


Look, first off, batman isn’t real. Second, a lot of things can’t be blanketed as all right or all evil.

“Right, don’t judge.”

No… remember? Judge righteous judgement. So if I should be reading my scriptures, but I’m watching Batman instead…

“Wait, but what if you’re tempted to go to, I don’t know, an alcohol party, and instead of giving in to the temptation, you decide to watch Batman instead? Eh? Eh?”

Alcohol party?

“Okay, beer party, whatever. Batman is obviously good now, right?”

He could be.

Could be? He’s keeping you from a beer party! And that’s good!”

True. It is.

“Right. So Batman is good.”

He could be.

“Why must you be so wishy washy about this? You acknowledge that it’s good that he’s keeping you from a beer party, right?”


“So what ‘could’ be bad about that?”

I didn’t say that was bad. I’m just avoiding making the blanket statement that Batman is all good.

“We’re not talking about blankets! We’re talking about good guys and bad guys. Batman is a good guy!”

But if you spent every day watching Batman, instead of doing your duties as a husband, father, and priesthood holder, that would be bad. So going back to the language thing, if I start taking the Lord’s name in vain because I want to convince my friends that I don’t judge them, that’s bad.

“So judging people is good now?”

Oh, bother. Here we go again. All I’m saying is that if a choice leads us to do good, and believe in God, and follow Him, it’s a good choice. If a choice leads us to deny God, or to not serve Him, then it’s evil.

“But didn’t Moroni say that first?”

Yes. Yes he did. And he was right. And it really is that simple. Read the rest of Moroni 7. If we’re basing all our decisions on the fact that they’re not evil, we may neglect making some good choices that would help us follow the Savior.

“So what about Spider Man?”

Ugh… I think we’re done.


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Oneness in Marriage

Dating and Marriage Series

Here’s a link to the talk we share:

Spencer W. Kimball, “Oneness in Marriage,” Ensign, Mar 1977, 3

Here’s a link to the talk Jenni mentioned – it’s a fun one, we recommend it!

Barbara Jacobson, “Granola Crumbs and Paint Cans,” Ensign, Jun 2009, 10–11

Here’s a link to the article Suzane Smith mentioned to us in an email: Top 50 Mormon/LDS Bloggers

Thanks, Suzane!

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Special Episode: Interview with Engagees!

Interview with Engagees

Dating and Marriage Series

Special episode!  We got an interview with my brother, Jake, and his fiance, Robyn.  They’re getting married in two weeks, and we talk with them about how they met and how they decided to get married.

We did mention one scripture:

D&C 82:10

I, the Lord, am bound when ye do what I say; but when ye do not what I say, ye have no promise.

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Go Fish

Dating and Marriage Series

“Of All Things,” New Era, Oct. 2004, 42

Be sure your courtship reflects the patterns you want in your eternal marriage.
—President Spencer W. Kimball (1895–1985), “Live for the Future,” New Era, Nov. 2002, 12.

A Prophet’s Love Story

As a boy, President Gordon B. Hinckley lived across the street from Marjorie Pay. She first caught his eye at a ward social when she gave a reading. Their first date was to the Gold and Green Ball, a Church dance. At that time, Gordon went to the University of Utah and Marjorie was a senior in high school. They became good friends, and their friendship later turned to courtship.

When the time came, Marjorie supported Gordon in his decision to (more…)

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Who Ya Gunna Marry?

Dating and Marriage Series

So now that you’re deep in the dating game, how do you decide WHO to marry?  As mentioned again and again by prophets, this is likely the most important decision you will make in your life!  So how do you decide?  Leave your thoughts in the comments, or email us at

Thomas S. Monson, “Whom Shall I Marry?,” New Era, Oct 2004, 4

Spencer W. Kimball:

“Soul mates” are fiction and an illusion; and while every young man and young woman will seek with all diligence and prayerfulness to find a mate with whom life can be most compatible and beautiful, yet it is certain that almost any good man and any good woman can have happiness and a successful marriage if both are willing to pay the price.
In selecting a companion for life and for eternity, certainly the most careful planning and thinking and praying and fasting should be done to be sure that of all the decisions, this one must not be wrong. In true marriage there must be a union of minds as well as of hearts. Emotions must not wholly determine decisions, but the mind and the heart, strengthened by fasting and prayer and serious consideration, will give one a maximum chance of marital happiness. It brings with it sacrifice, sharing, and a demand for great selflessness.

Many of the TV screen shows and stories of fiction end with marriage: “They lived happily ever after.” We have come to realize that the mere performance of a ceremony does not bring happiness and a successful marriage. Happiness does not come by pressing a button, as does the electric light; happiness is a state of mind and comes from within. It must be earned. It cannot be purchased with money; it cannot be taken for nothing.

Some think of happiness as a glamorous life of ease, luxury, and constant thrills; but true marriage is based on a happiness which is more than that, one which comes from giving, serving, sharing, sacrificing, and selflessness.

First Presidency Message,    Oneness in Marriage, By President Spencer W. Kimball

Ezra Taft Benson:

Remember, young men, the importance of proper dating. President Kimball gave some wise counsel on this subject:
“Clearly, right marriage begins with right dating. … Therefore, this warning comes with great emphasis. Do not take the chance of dating nonmembers, or members who are untrained and faithless. [You] may say, ‘Oh I do not intend to marry this person. It is just a “fun” date.’ But one cannot afford to take a chance on falling in love with someone who may never accept the gospel.” (Miracle of Forgiveness, pp. 241–42.)
Our Heavenly Father wants you to date young women who are faithful members of the Church, who encourage you to serve a full-time mission and to magnify your priesthood.

Ezra Taft Benson, “To the ‘Youth of the Noble Birthright’,” Ensign, May 1986,  43

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